也是一只自由泳的小鸟
⬇️ 十几年过去了，现在又是什么情况呢？
其实我想要分享开心事或者讲秘密的话还是有好几个人的，但是 in a crisis 可以 turn to 谁我就不知道了，我感觉和我关系好的现在还都没有混得那么好，足够给我支撑…可能再过几年大家就混出头了呢 
“social scientists have been asking a cross-section of U.S. citizens a simple question for years: “How many confidants do you have?” They wanted to know how many people you could turn to in a crisis, or when something really good happens to you. When they started doing the study several decades ago, the average number of close friends an American had was three. By 2004, the most common answer was none.”
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之前我在读情绪和进化的相关性的时候，想的是像我这样不适应社会的人，不如就主动淘汰自己的基因好了。但是我突然发现不适应社会的人好像是大多数，是社会变化的速度超过了人类进化的速度。如果感到孤独是从原始社会遗传而来，目的是为了把人拉回部落，避免危险的话，那么现代社会其实并不一定需要那么多的陪伴和合作，一个人也可以过得很安全，孤独的情绪是否有些多余了呢？会不会以后的人类就算长时间一个人也不至于感到孤独了呢？
