If we largely define queerness by whether or not we experience these abuses “enough” to be considered authentic, what room does this leave us to embrace our queer identities outside these abuses, especially when our collective goal is to dismantle them altogether?

读到 14% 感觉有点啰嗦，同一个点反复在讲，不太明白受众是谁，如果是想给对 ace 完全没概念的人科普的话那可能确实有反复强调的必要，但是那种人真的会对这种书感兴趣吗​​