今天晚饭做了龙虾尾,看视频学了个小窍门:*每个*龙虾尾x磅重,broil的时候就烤x分钟就好。做起来超简单,把龙虾尾剪开肉翻出来butterfly,黄油+柠檬汁+蒜泥+盐做个酱抹上去,烤箱broil几分钟就好了,香。餐厅(尤其是牛排店)好贵的
读过《Bi》
https://neodb.social/book/2n4BvG2szqagYoOhjxDp0C
特别好的一本书,探讨了 bisexual behavior 和 identity 的区别,bi-erasure 以及 bi 群体更多地遭受不公背后的原因,也讨论了 bi 和一些 common myth 比如 threesome 的关系。
比较意外的是 bisexual 研究的体量其实还蛮大的并且历史悠久,没我想象的那么 niche。以及看完觉得作为 bi 真的是很不错的一件事!
No matter what your sexual identity, you can be promiscuous or unfaithful or never want to settle down with only one person . . . or you can be sexually conservative or faithful or want to be married with a white picket fence. The difference, however, is that as a bisexual person you are constantly asked why. Why do you want these things? Why do you have sex with the people you do? How can you know this is what you really want? Are you sure? How can you be sure? What if you change your mind?
I dream of a world where people stop asking bisexual people these questions, and instead ask themselves these questions.