也是一只自由泳的小鸟
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其实我总觉得我的德国留学生活过于特例了也有很多运气成分，没有参考性，所以不敢讲太多，但是我想到 Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie 提到的 The Danger of the Single Story，就觉得不管是不是特例/有限的见闻都应该分享出来，如果大家都分享的话视角就会全面一点
不过到底为什么时间线上时不时就有人讨论一下德国留学/移民事宜…
每次看到书里写主人公如何沉醉在书的海洋中，我也会感到沉醉
Of course much of this was tongue-in-cheek, but what it shows is how that word feminist is so heavy with baggage, negative baggage: you hate men, you hate bras, you hate African culture, you think women should always be in charge, you don’t wear make-up, you don’t shave, you’re always angry, you don’t have a sense of humour, you don’t use deodorant.
让我想到 #SpracheUndSein 里面写到的，人们认为穆斯林不能是 feminist，feminist 不应该戴头巾。
#WeShouldAllBeFeminists #读书
she waited for my mother to make up her mind whether she would go as well or not. Since for most of her life my mother’s mind, belonging first to her father and then to her husband, had not been hers to make up, she was finding it difficult to come to a decision.
‘Lucia,’ she sighed, ‘why do you keep bothering me with this question? Does it matter what I want? Since when has it mattered what I want? So why should it start mattering now? Do you think I wanted to be impregnated by that old dog? Do you think I wanted to travel all this way across this country of our forefathers only to live in dirt and poverty? Do you really think I wanted the child for whom I made the journey to die only five years after it left the womb? Or my son to be taken from me? So what difference does it make whether I have a wedding or whether I go? It is all the same. What I have endured for nineteen years I can endure for another nineteen, and nineteen more if need be. Now leave me! Leave me to rest.’
how dreadfully familiar that scene had been, with Babamukuru condemning Nyasha to whoredom, making her a victim of her femaleness, just as I had felt victimised at home in the days when Nhamo went to school and I grew my maize. The victimisation, I saw, was universal. It didn’t depend on poverty, on lack of education or on tradition. It didn’t depend on any of the things I had thought it depended on. Men took it everywhere with them. Even heroes like Babamukuru did it. And that was the problem. You had to admit that Nyasha had no tact. You had to admit she was altogether too volatile and strong-willed. You couldn’t ignore the fact that she had no respect for Babamukuru when she ought to have had lots of it. But what I didn’t like was the way all the conflicts came back to this question of femaleness. Femaleness as opposed and inferior to maleness.
Three young men came up to me and told me they fancied me, but I could see from the way they talked that they really fancied themselves.
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其实我真的不认识些什么毕不了业的人，除了我室友，但我室友的情况是，他课很早就上得差不多了，只是毕业设计写了四遍，包括开始了但没注册的、最后论文字数不够、交上去挂了的。
论文通过之后他没拿毕业证就工作了一年，失业之后才发现他还有一门实验课没上，于是他先家里蹲了一年，再花了一整学期上这么一门实验课，上完了之后他意外发现他还缺几个学分，于是他又花了一整个学期上这么一门四学分的课（一般一学期是三十个学分），直到考试前两星期才开始认真看课程视频，一天看一两节，考试前一天才刷了半道题，第二天不出所料地挂掉了，现在他又找到了新的工作，但名义上还是学生。
⬆️这是德国硕士生的水平，你们讲德国毕业率的时候请不要跟这种人比。
德国毕业难度的话…我觉得大家就自行掂量一下自己在国内的成绩吧，如果在国内成绩尚可的话，来德国也不至于很难。德国毕业率我觉得水分非常大，这里面有很多不把正经上课拿毕业证当回事儿的德国人，他们可能想吃学生证福利，所以尽量拖延，每学期就上一两门课，还不好好考试。他们也没有国内那种大一大二大三大四按部就班的概念，有人读个一年就换专业，再读一年又换专业，或者读到一半去工作了，读到一半不喜欢转去职业学校了，这种人能按时毕业才怪了。我觉得中国学生真的很急，一学期能塞多少课就塞多少课，也不打工，就想早点毕业，但德国这边不按时毕业还蛮正常的。
毕业率当然跟难度也有关系，不清楚大家来德国是想读本科还是读硕士。如果是硕士的话其实难度正常的，本科才会难很多，但我觉得这是德国大学本科非常好的一点，就是他们的课不是能水过去的，要求学生扎扎实实地学。加上基本不收学费、可以随意换专业&转学、可以同时读多个学位这几点，我认为对于诚心求学的人是重大利好。难度也跟学校有关，有些大学不仅考试题目不难，还允许学生多次刷分。还有些专业也会比另一些专业难，所以可以多听听看学长学姐的经验。如果只是想混毕业证的话，可以考虑英授硕士，难度会低一些。
我总觉得大家提到去小语种国家留学的时候说一些“会讲英语就可以”“当地人英语水平很好”这样的话，似乎是在假定我们的英语是完美的
去英语国家留学大家不也会担心自己英语不好无法日常沟通吗…
我去欧洲别的国家旅游的时候，对面看我是外国人就直接说英语，也给我这样一种感觉：你既然认定我不会讲当地语言，为什么又认定我会英语呢？
我今天没吃晚饭，不想弄而且也不饿，我现在刷了牙躺在床上了，结果肚子开始吵…特别吵，一刻不停地吵…但是我一点也不觉得饿…
我真的觉得特别坑，本来我就很质疑他们疫情期间卖那么多票，不保持一下距离，现在说只能允许 750 个人，所以取消了我的票…你一共才 2000 个座位啊？你当初别放那么多票啊
我在所里的饮食：不是在冲可可就是在吃巧克力
为什么我根本不穿胸罩却总想买性感内衣…
翻了一圈感觉都好土
我好无语，今天九点有一个博士答辩，我九点钟还躺在床上，很困，就想随便听听，于是在手机上打开通知邮件，结果附件下下来是 0 kb。折腾了半天决定把笔记本电脑拿到床上，结果没电了，我又去拿充电器，结果开机之后电脑神奇地坏了：只能点击 Dock，点屏幕的其他部分完全没有反应。折腾了半天我决定起床去台式机上听，结果打开收件箱那封邮件消失了，最后发现不知怎么进了垃圾箱。我终于点开邮件把附件下载下来了，里面赫然写着“答辩在线进行，想参与请给答辩者发邮件”。。。
。。人家都已经在答辩了我还怎么发邮件啊！为什么不能直接把链接放通知邮件里啊！
就这么不想让我听答辩吗，为什么给我设置这么多莫名其妙的阻碍。。
盥洗台下水堵了，室友在疏通，疏通完之后发现管道上有三个小洞，现在漏水。管子有点厚度，不至于疏通的时候戳破了，他推测是本来就破了，之前有污垢把洞堵住了而已。
我：程序靠一些 bug 运行。
如果我努力干活，我将什么也干不出来。
如果我不干活，我将愉快摸鱼。
我当然选择摸鱼
